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The Work That Comes After Yes

Jayme Swan
Jan 22, 2026
Trivia Question❓Which vitamin helps keep your eyes sharp, supports immune health, and plays a role in skin renewal — yet becomes harder for women over 50 to store in the body? Answer at the bottom of the newsletter |
Before the Amen
When I got home, Stacey was asleep on the sofa. Curled up under her favorite blanket. And dried tears still on her face.
My chest tightened instantly. Damn.
I stood there longer than I meant to, just watching her breathe, replaying last night in my head. My tone. My words. The way I brushed past something that clearly mattered to her.
Was this my doing?
I wanted to wake her up, pull her into my arms, tell her I loved her and that I was sorry — but something told me to let her rest. Instead, I gently lifted the Bible from her chest and sat in the chair beside her.
I didn’t know what I was looking for.
Truth? Comfort? Answers?
I didn’t even know why I picked it up — I just knew this book had carried people through some heavy storms. I wasn’t ignorant to God or the Bible… I just never had a relationship with it.
In my mind, I was a good man.
I treated people right. I gave back. I stayed out of the streets. Didn’t bring chaos into nobody’s life.
I figured that was enough.
When life got heavy, I talked to the universe. Asked for guidance. Asked for peace. But if I’m being honest… I don’t remember ever calling God by name.
Daniel’s voice echoed in my head — The Lord’s Prayer.
I flipped through the pages and landed on Matthew 6:9–13.
And as I read, something shifted.
It wasn’t loud.
It wasn’t dramatic.
It was… calm. A stillness I wasn’t used to. The kind that made you want to sit longer instead of rushing to the next thing. The kind that made you curious instead of defensive.
If this was what kept Daniel’s marriage intact…
If this was what meant so much to the woman I loved…
Then maybe I had nothing to lose.
And everything to gain.
Besides — ain’t nobody trying to be out here dealing with young thirsty gold diggers and old scorned divorcees.
I chuckled quietly to myself. That’s when Stacey stirred. Her eyes fluttered open, and the first thing she saw was me — sitting there with her Bible in my hands.
“Hey, babe,” she said softly.
“Hey, my love.”
She blinked a few times. “When did you get home… and is that my Bible?”
“I’ve been here about an hour,” I said. “You looked peaceful. I didn’t want to wake you.” She sat up slowly, still watching me.
“Baby,” I continued, “there’s a lot we need to talk about. First… I owe you an apology. I was insensitive about church and your prayer life. That wasn’t fair to you.”
Her eyes softened, but she stayed quiet.
“I’m not against it,” I said. “I just wasn’t raised with it. I didn’t understand how much it mattered. But I respect you. And if something brings you peace, I want to be part of it.”
She swallowed hard.
“So yeah,” I added. “I’ll go to counseling. I’ll go to church. I’ll pray with you. Daniel told me straight up — without God, his marriage wouldn’t have survived. And Jimbo…” I shook my head. “He told me what happens when you leave Him out.”
I paused. “And I don’t want to end up out here with young thirsty gold diggers and old scorned divorcees.”
She frowned. “Huh?”
I laughed. “Never mind. Not important.”
She smiled, still confused, then reached for my hand. “I’m just happy you’re open. I know this will bring us closer in ways we can’t even imagine. I don’t know what happened on that golf course today… but I know the spirit was moving.”
She leaned in and kissed me.
“I love you.”
“I love you too,” I said. “So… where do we go from here?”
She didn’t hesitate.
“Church.”
We smiled. Kissed again. Held each other a little longer this time. But even as she rested her head against my chest, one thought stayed with me —
Starting something new is easy.
Living it?
That’s where the real work begins.
And I wasn’t sure either one of us fully understood what we’d just agreed to. |
In 2026, the spotlight on healthy eating habits shines brighter than ever, with protein becoming a central focus for many Americans.
New U.S. dietary guidelines now suggest a jump to 1.2–1.6 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight each day, marking a significant increase from earlier recommendations.
Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. urges prioritizing protein at every meal, especially from sources like red meat and whole milk.
Some nutritionists, however, warn against overconsumption, pointing out that most people already get enough protein.
Despite this, demand for protein-rich foods continues to climb, fueled by growing interest in flavor, health benefits, and nutritional value.
Recent reports show 61% of Americans raised their protein intake in 2024.
Popular choices include beef, chicken, eggs, and a new wave of high-protein snacks tailored for convenience.
Balancing diverse protein sources and consulting healthcare advisors remain key for personal nutrition in 2026. Read More... |
Letting Go Doesn’t Mean You Stopped Loving |
One of the hardest transitions for mothers of adult children is learning when to step back. When they’re over 30, their lives belong to them—their choices, their lessons, their consequences. As painful as it is, it’s not our job to rescue, fix, or rewrite their story. Sometimes love looks like silence. Sometimes it looks like prayer instead of interference. And sometimes it means allowing them to hit rock bottom while your heart breaks quietly on the sidelines. Letting go isn’t abandonment—it’s trust. Trust that they will rise. Trust that God is still covering them. And trust that your role has shifted from protector to witness. You raised them. Now let them live.
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Reflection / Journal Prompt: |
Roasted Pear & Pecan Power SaladWarm, nourishing, and designed to support digestion, hormones, and steady energy.
Ingredients
Balsamic Honey Dressing
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Why It’s Perfect After 50 |
Women are reshaping the travel landscape, with a dramatic rise in solo trips and women-only tours worldwide.
Women now make up 75-84% of all solo travelers, a number driven especially by the growing interest among Gen Z.
In 2025, 45% plan to travel alone—up sharply from 37% the year prior.
Greater financial independence is fueling these journeys, empowering women to explore destinations on their own terms.
However, personal safety remains a top priority, with 70% of solo female travelers expressing concern.
This focus on security has made women-only group tours increasingly attractive, providing both safety and a sense of community.
Travel companies are responding, with offerings tailored for women rising 230% in recent years.
Social media—especially platforms like TikTok—further inspires and connects adventurous women, sparking a global trend. Read More... |
Joke Of The Day |
Why do women over 50 give the best advice? Because they’ve already tried it the hard way… |
Sustainable living starts at home, with daily choices that support a healthier environment.
Sanitation is a key, often overlooked, factor in keeping homes green and recycling systems efficient.
Neglected waste bins can attract bacteria and odors, harming both health and local ecosystems.
Proactive cleaning habits help reduce pests, keep neighborhoods tidy, and strengthen community well-being.
Choosing eco-conscious sanitation—like using minimal water and gentle cleaning agents—limits pollution and supports responsible resource use.
Programs like Cincinnati’s Enright Ridge Urban Ecovillage show how communities can succeed by connecting organic practices and shared responsibility.
Regular sanitation not only promotes public health but also builds trust and respect among neighbors.
As cities grow, making sanitation a priority safeguards our neighborhoods and our planet—one clean bin at a time. Read More... |
Interesting Facts |
✨ Strength Training Improves Brain Health ✨ Posture Affects Energy Levels ✨ Smell Is Closely Linked to Memory ✨ Evening Stretching Improves Sleep Quality |
As the new year begins, Australian businesses have the chance to advance sustainability by embracing more efficient and eco-friendly practices.
Helen Oakey, CEO of Renew, highlights that everyday workplace choices can make a real difference.
Change often stems from passionate staff, not just leadership, fueling a culture of sustainability from the ground up.
Choosing recycled or local products, advocating for better packaging, and engaging with suppliers can create a ripple effect across industries.
Encouraging cycling, public transport, or EV use not only cuts emissions but also boosts staff wellbeing.
Simple steps like providing bike facilities or joining events like Ride2Work Day can reinforce green habits.
Improved waste management, including waste audits and visible recycling systems, empowers teams to reduce landfill.
Efficiency upgrades, such as using energy-saving equipment or installing solar panels, further lighten environmental impact.
Recognising and celebrating progress inspires ongoing commitment, uniting management and staff in meaningful action. Read More... |
Quote Of The Day |
“This chapter isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about finally being yourself.” |
💡 Answer to Trivia Question: ✨ Vitamin A |
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