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The Great Lock-In: Focus, Flourish & Finish Strong
Jayme Swan
Oct 9, 2025
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The Call
Duane felt it before I could say a word—the sudden change in my heartbeat, the shift in my face. His body went stiff. My phone rang, slicing through the quiet. Without hesitation, he snatched it up.
“Hello?” His voice was sharp, protective.
No answer.
He tried again. “Hello?” Still silence.
Duane’s tone dropped low, calm but dangerous. “Look, I don’t know who this is, but I’m not here to play games. This is my wife. If you’ve got something to say, say it to me.”
Then a soft, trembling voice came through. “I’m sorry... I just needed to speak to her. I need some answers, and I feel like she can help me. I don’t want to cause any problems.”
The phone was on speaker, so I heard every word.
“Who is this?” I asked, my voice steady but curious.
“Hi, Stacey... my name is Patrice Glass. I wanted to talk to you about Jason Mathews.”
“Who?” I said.
“Jason Mathews—the artist?”
I froze. “You mean Darius Johnson.”
“I guess,” she said softly. “I don’t know him by that name. But please—I just need a few minutes of your time. I think you’re the only one who can help me.”
I looked at Duane, confusion written all over my face. His jaw tightened. Duane spoke before I could. “We’ll meet with you today at one o’clock. Coffee Café downtown.
My wife doesn’t go anywhere alone. And look—lady, I don’t know you, but if this is some kind of setup or funny business, I’m not the one.” She agreed and hung up. I exhaled. “What answers could she possibly think I have? And why the hell is she calling him Jason Mathews?”
My voice cracked a little. “I just want to put all this behind me. Move forward, finish planning my wedding, and live in peace with my husband. Are you sure you want to go, Duane? I can call the girls and have them meet me.”
He took my hand. “Nah. We’re in this together—come hell or high water.”
We got to the café a few minutes early. I needed a cup of coffee to calm my nerves. My stomach felt twisted, like my spirit already knew something I didn’t. At one o’clock sharp, she walked in. Patrice was the kind of woman you notice when she enters a room—elegant but edgy. Dark shades, messy bun (but the kind that looks intentional), fitted jeans, a colorful silk blouse, Chanel flats, matching belt and bag. Money. Grace. Confidence. She moved like she had somewhere to be and people waiting on her to get there.
I waved to her, but she was already walking straight toward me—like she knew exactly who I was. She slid off her shades, reached out her hand, and said, “Hi, I’m Patrice. Thank you for meeting with me.”
Once her shades were off, her beauty hit me—natural, soft, effortless. I glanced at Duane and, of course, there it was: that stupid grin men get when they see a beautiful woman. I smirked to myself. Not jealous—just amused.
“Please, have a seat,” Duane said smoothly. “Can I get you a cup of coffee or something?”
In my head, I rolled my eyes. Or something? Boy, she better just get that coffee.
“No, thank you,” Patrice said politely. “I’m fine.”
I leaned forward. “So, Ms. Patrice... how can I help you?” Her lips trembled before the words came. “I met a man ten years ago. His name was Jason Mathews.”
The second she said it, I knew. The way she described his charm, his art, his smile—there was no mistaking it. Darius.
She continued, voice cracking but determined. “I met him at an art exhibition. I was looking for something special—something for my office.
He offered to show me around. He was so knowledgeable, so confident... I fell for him before I realized what was happening. Eventually, he convinced me to invest in him and his work. Said he’d have his own exhibition one day. I believed him.”
She took a shaky breath. “I poured money into him. Fifty thousand dollars. My savings. My trust. My heart. And then—he disappeared. Just gone. No call, no note. His phone stopped working, his apartment was empty. I searched everywhere. I even went by his studio, but they said he’d moved out. I was devastated.”
Her voice dropped to a whisper. “And the worst part? I had just found out I was pregnant.”
Duane and I froze. I could feel the air leave my lungs.
“It’s been ten years,” she said, eyes glistening. “My son’s ten years old. He looks just like his father—Jason Mathews, or whoever he really is.”
Silence. The kind that presses on your chest. You could’ve heard a pin drop—or a rat piss on cotton. Then she looked straight at me. “How do you know him, Stacey? Did he do the same thing to you? Why did you call him Darius Johnson?”
She swallowed hard. “When I saw you at his exhibition, I knew you two were close. It wasn’t the first time I’d seen you together. I’d been following him, trying to build the courage to confront him—to tell him about his son, to tell him how he broke me. But instead, I got angry. I trashed his studio. I caused chaos. And I know I dragged you into something that had nothing to do with you. For that... I’m sorry.”
Her voice cracked, and she wiped a tear from her cheek.
Whew. It was a lot. More than I was ready for. I stared at her, speechless, heart pounding. Everything Darius had ever told me started flashing through my mind like a broken reel. Lies dressed as truth. Promises wrapped in charm. I cleared my throat, took a slow sip of my coffee, and looked her dead in the eyes.
“Where do I begin?” I said. |
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